Busy, Distracted and having fun!

The title to this blog says it all!! ... I have been busy putting together My new ideas and plans for My videos, shooting and editing more clips. I shot some very hot video footage with Alexandra Tiger. We shot some sexy stockings and foot worship scenarios and then I shot solo in My very short dress, high heels and long fingernails. Any videos with Alexandra Tiger and I will be displayed for purchase at Black Beauty Visions Videos when it is ready for release to the public. We will be shooting a lot more together and it will be addicting sensual and kinky.

I am also working on a well needed, very exciting, big and kinky project that will be the buzz of the scene. And that project is called MIAMI CHATEAU!!!... enough said for now!! I will let you brew on that and I will reveal more of this at a later date.

Distracted and fun .... from spending a lot of time with My gorgeous, captivating, energetic and kinky new girlfriend/lover... Alexandra Tiger. She is 22 and I am 43, talking about a COUGAR! Some would say I am a cougar, and if that describes a very hot older woman then sign Me up. I love the n r g and the mind set we have , it all vibes in harmony.

In general, life has been as always interesting and never a dull moment. I am very happy with My new furniture that I got for My birthday. It was belated gifts, but I got it and it looks amazing in My place. Dark brown black wood, very Japanese style and classy. Can't wait to decorate more!

I have been training My personal subs and grooming those selected to be in My videos and other servitude to Me. I am building a small sincere harem and it's not always easy because some people don't have what it takes fast enough and need severe training and attention. If I feel that person and situation is worth it then I may consider the challenge. I need polite, useful and reliable subs that know they are submissive from their souls and understand their place and position.

I am making plans to attend the Fetish Factory Halloween Party October 30th... I make it a point to attend their Anniversary and Halloween parties because they are amazing all the time. Go to Fetish Factory Halloween party link to find out more. I will not be in costume, but I will be corseted up and wearing latex.

I was going to attend DOMCON in Atlanta the weekend of October 9th, but had a change of plans. I will be attending DOMCON in Los Angeles next year in May for sure!

That's all for now, I will be back a lot sooner than last time!

Black Beauty Videos site... !

NOTE: This a correction to the previous blogs I wrote here stating that BLACK BEAUTY VIDEOS is what My clips4sale store is called and it is not! ... BBV will be explained here:

Hello all, I will be adding lots of new, hot and exclusive video clips on My new website coming soon at: www.BlackBeautyVideos.com   My production company is called Black Beauty Videos. This new site will host more of My collection of kinky fetish videos. This will be a Members site where you can purchase My various videos with a list of fetishes and will be specifically categorize catering to the following:  Stockings & Pantyhose ....  Peddle Pumping  ...  Long Fingernail Fetish ..... Ball Busting ...  CBT ....  Foot Worshipping ... Slut Training and much more

I will of course keep My official web site at: www.dominaerotica.com ... That just means I have to double up on My video productions and shoot a lot more footage to get this accomplished, and I will! It will actually be fun as usual because I LOVE the whole creative process getting together what I am going to wear, where it will be shot location, location! Who will be in the videos with Me or am I flying solo. And of course what kink will the video be about. I am going to be wearing a lot of stockings pantyhose and fishnets, showing off My long 2" fingernails, getting My feet worshipped massaged and kissed as I use them to trample, kick cock and balls, tying up man meat in bondage. So much to do and so little time!

I am also working on more series clips to My new members site. Continuations of clips like Part 1 Part 2 etc.... you get the picture. I like to do series because it's like watching a whole movie and looking forward to what happens next. Keeping the story line going freaky, fun and engaging.

I will post here when My new video store at Black Beauty Videos will be ready to feed your addictions!

I had a great birthday!

I had a very nice birthday weekend. It was chill and reflective. Saturday evening, August 28th was beautiful, I drove over to the beach right before midnight to have a birthday picnic with Alexandra Tiger. We ate chicken and cheese, sweet snacks as we laid back on the beach chairs under the bright moon, vibrant stars watching the waves of the water with perfect weather. It was very reflective and romantic at the same time. Birthday morning I woke up in such a great mood and was excited because it was My day, thinking back on the past year and looking forward to My future years to come.

I had a delicious brunch cooked for Me then I was off furniture shopping, of course I was very excited about that! I picked out a few items that I wanted and I can't wait to redecorate My dining room area and kitchen. I have to reorganize a few things first but that will be done this week, so My new furniture will look fabulous, with more to come! Sunday evening after the furniture store and shopping, I was taken to Seasons 52 one of My favorite places to eat. If you never been, I highly suggest that you check it out, the food is great and the ambiance is really lovely....I received other nice gifts too, like jewelry and Victoria Secrets, kinky stuff...etc...!

Can't say that it's all about the material blessings, because I am not that shallow, I have a sincere gratitude for being "allowed" to be here another year. The gifts are welcomed though and very nice... My appreciate goes out to all that have given Me gifts and to all that have sent Me kind and wonderful words for My birthday.

Happy Birthday to Me...I will be 43 years young and loving it!!

I have never been the type of Woman that stresses over Her age and worries about getting "older". I am like fine expensive wines that ages gracefully and taste better as time goes by. I am very proud of My age and happy to be in a place in life where I understand My purpose and reason for living. I am also aware that older does not always mean wiser, and younger does not always mean stupid or naive. Fortunately, I have fallen into the "older yet wiser" category and I am truly grateful for this blessing. Don't get Me wrong I am by far not saying I know it all and the wisest person around. But I feel I do pretty good considering!...One may ask what makes Me feel and say that I am truly "older yet wiser" and My answer would be based upon My life's teachings, realizations, innerstanding Myself as a Spiritual human being, a Woman and a child of God. If that goes a little deep, then hey, I am just speaking from a place that I am very familiar with and that's My heart and soul.

My Birthday is August 29th and I am very excited for this day to come. I am going to celebrate being "allowed" to live such a great life and to have experienced so many different things, gone to many wonderful places and met so many great people. I feel I still have so much to learn and accomplish, so I am looking forward to what is next for Me. Anyone that knows Me will tell you I have been the same person as far as being real, giving and passionate... only thing that has changed is that those qualities have enhanced and that makes Me happier!

43 years young is what I say and mean because I don't feel 43 years old. If anything I feel vibrant and youthful. I don't "look" 43, whatever 43 suppose to look like. I still get carded at the store for My I.D. which is always flattering. I feel blessed and some ask Me how do I maintain My youth. My answer is the following: My ethnic background is Native American Indian (Cherokee), West Indian (Jamaican), African American (Black), which helps with My skin being soft with no wrinkles. Lots more melanin in the skin as well as oils to keep the skin more supple ( I also try My best to take care of My skin and drinking enough water helps too)....... My positive deep inner attitude about life and having the ability to not be easily stressed out about situations and drama....... I try and practice My spirituality regarding the "3 Greatest Virtues" (Read about the "3 Greatest Virtues" I wrote here in My blog below this post) And I have a profound respect for the Creator....... I don't drink alcohol any more. I stopped drinking over 15 years ago......... I don't smoke cigarettes ....... I eat 80-90% organic foods and love to cook organic recipes....... I try and work out sometimes to maintain a healthy lifestyle and sexy body....... I love with passion and forgiveness........ I do what I LOVE, which is being a Dominatrix with the whole lifestyle involved....... I take out time for Me! .....I try to keep a balance in My life of all things important and true to Me...... I try and be there for others and not always expecting something back..... and last but not least as I said before, I don't stress over getting older......

Not sure yet what I plan on doing for My B'day but whatever it is it will be all good! I have a wish list for those of you that would love to send Me gifts. If you need info on how to send Me a gift, click onto My email address at: mserotica@aol.com  .... I am in the process of adding a lot more wish list gifts to My list of things I like, so stay tuned for that..... Click onto the following link to view My list:

Domina Erotica's wish list link

My FETCON Adventure and other stuff!

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Domina Erotica & Alexandra Tiger accepting sessions at FETCON in Tampa!

Alexandra Tiger and I will be attending the FETCON Convention in Tampa, Florida August 5th - 8th and staying at the host hotel Hyatt Regency Hotel, 211 North Tampa Street, Tampa, Florida 33602. We are accepting double Domme sessions and single Domme sessions while We are there from select subs. To find out more about the convention go to: FETCON Convention site ..... to find out more about Alexandra Tiger, check Her out at: Alexandra Tiger's blog ..... 

The 3 greatest virtues!!

The 3 greatest virtues in every human life are the following:

Humility..... this is the ego monsters biggest enemy. Being able to allow yourself to take a step back from it being all about you. To humble yourself, to soften your character and look at the world through different more compassionate eyes. Having humility is not about looking and acting weak, it's not about worrying about what others feel and think because you are not the loudest, meanest or the strongest. You can have humility of the heart and soul and still carry yourself with a strong yet positive vibration and still get respect! Would you rather be feared than loved? Bowing down to something much greater than you does not make you the weakest link, if anything it makes you a greater human being and elevated spirit!

Gratitude..... this is something that should be practiced everyday for everything. In life everything is taken for granted. Your life, your health, love, money, your job, material blessings, family, friends and most important GOD! To be grateful for all things from morning till night, till death do us part is part of the key to eliminating stress and unnecessary drama in life. We receive countless blessings everyday, and too many times those blessings are looked over and taken for granted as though we are owed these things, and we are not! What we have in life really does not belong to us, they are borrowed!..... True Gratitude comes from the deepest and most purest part of your soul. Anyone can say "Thank you", but how sincere are you? Even if you are given the smallest thing, it is important. We are always tested to see how grateful we are for the things we receive... little do you know you fail majority of the time.  All the material blessings you have can be taken away within a blink of an eye, will it only be then you will fall to your knees and be sincerely grateful? You can be healthy and living life then all of the sudden you find yourself fighting for your life, will you only be grateful then? You can love someone, and then the next day they are gone with you not being able to say goodbye, will you be grateful for their life then when it's too late? Gratitude starts now and forever!

Acceptance........ this would have to be the hardest virtue of all. It means that whatever life sends your way, you are to be accepting of it without complaints! Complaining will NOT change it, complaining will only accumulate more toxins in your soul and attitude and it does not change things at all. To look at the situation and say, I accept this change, I accept this hardship, I accept this arrangement in My life because this is my blueprint and my lesson to learn suck it up and accept it. I know it is much easier said than done, but it is important and it is never going away. Losing a job, a death, financial downfalls, eviction, heartbreak, rejection, bad health, problems and difficulties are all some examples of what we deal with in our daily lives. To look at the situation and swallow hard, accept it as being apart of our lives as human. Our emotions and attachments will always play a important part, and because of that will make it hard to accept. But when you accept life's circumstances, you find a weight has been lifted off your shoulders and you feel a sense of freedom and deeper understanding, especially if you look and can see it from a spiritual perspective and not human knowledge. Although it will be hard for you, acceptance allows you to move forward and make room for a more positive outlook on life!

Domina Erotica

Domina Erotica & Alexandra Tiger

It is an extreme rare occasion that I partner up with another Domme. In My over 17 years in this lifestyle there have been only 1-2 Dommes that I rolled with and we were good together. But fate has recently sent My way a Domme that I am planning on working with in the near future doing double Domme sessions, videos and all around terrorizing subspace. Her name is Alexandra Tiger....a stunning and classy German Domme. She just relocated to Miami from Germany about 6 months ago and we hit it off right away. I am VERY particular about who I allow in My small circle of people especially being side by side with Me as a Domme and feeling comfortable knowing I will not be embarrassed because She does not know what She is doing and does not represent Herself with style, intelligence and experience. Alexandra Tiger and I just did a very hot photo shoot together this past weekend over at the Fort Lauderdale beach area and also in My arena at Domain of Erotica located in Fort Lauderdale. We are working on future plans for a web site venture and other kinky adventures, so stay tuned. Here are a couple of teaser pics for your viewing pleasures.......

Domina Erotica & Alexandra Tiger

Hot like fire!!!

Keeping the wheels greased...

As always I am on My grind. As you see in My blog post below I added yet another hot video to My collection. As well as many more to come. I am always looking to make connections with people, expand My horizons and experience new things. I am working on a new yet very big project, but I can not reveal what it is yet, let's just say when it's all said and done it will be amazing and fabulously kinky....something Florida really needs!! Don't have an estimated date/time it will be done, but the ideas and creative motion is set and being put in place as we speak. I am also on the look out for new locations to shoot videos in for a nice variety of back drops.

Planning on updating My official web site at:  www.dominaerotica.com with a whole new look, almost like a magazine look and feel to it, much more polished and clean. I can't wait because I have been wanting another creative style to My site along with more content and brand new pics...!!

At My dungeon training arena called Domain of Erotica located in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, I am getting a new and updated look with a silver metallic paint job to one of My walls and new toys for My playing pleasures.

And as always, editing more of My video footage and shooting more erotic domination and fetish videos.
There is always something to do and usually not enough time, but I would not have it any other way!

Dominating a submissive married couple!!

I love to dominate women and men but when I have them together it's the best of both worlds! I had an amazing session with a married couple that flew in from London on holiday to indulge in south Florida's kink and nightlife. I was first contacted by the male husband sub and he was quickly told by Me to put the female sub wife on the phone to verify her existence. I spoke to her and we made the arrangements. They arrived and the female sub walked in the door first...... sexy, blonde, big tits, works for Me! The male sub was nice looking too. We chatted for a while, then I made her get undressed while he watched and yearned for his turn. I examined her toned tanned body and squeezed her hard nipples and she giggled. I shackled her wrist...I pulled him by the neck closer to Me and squeezed his balls. After that it was on for the rest of the evening. Hot, dominate, erotic, kinky......I controlled and dominated both of them, had My way with them, play with them and used them for My deviant pleasures. And after 3 hours of intensity there came the explosion and then a calming bliss!

We talked for awhile after the session, they drank some wine for a night cap and then they were gone saying they "will" be back! They were a lot of fun and said that was the best time they had ever had with a Domme before. Of course, I love what I do and who I am and that helps. Oh, and that special touch makes it all the better too!

Back from the Keys & shooting videos...

My vacation to Key West was wonderful, it was like a 1000 degrees outside so I decided we should stay below deck on the yacht for most of the day. At night we played under the stars. We indulged in sissy maid training, servitude, foot massages, heavy restrictive bondage, cbt, discipline, slut training etc....lot of fun! Now I am back on My grind and edited more kinky videos footage. A long time sub admirer named sub m flew in last night for the shoot and servitude until Monday evening. I will put him to good use while he is here. I shot some very hot domination, ass worship, stocking fetish, nail raking scenarios today with sub m! I can't wait to start editing that content to get it in  My video clips store for your viewing addictions. That should be soon......

Editing Videos and living life...

When I was in Los Angeles a few weeks ago for the DOMCON Convention I shot some more kinky video footage for My video clips store at:  Black Beauty Vision  I can't wait to finish editing it so I can load it up for your purchasing, viewing pleasures and addictions. The scenes were so hot and I had a lot of D/s fun of course. I love to shoot new content playing and training My female and male subs, seducing and dominating them, editing the content to My liking. Plus,  I am happy that My editor is skilled and great at it..... He has a good idea of where My head is creatively so we flow when we are editing till we have the finish product. Although I feel I can and have trusted him with editing content alone without Me. I still like to be hands on with the production. I have a certain standards and way of getting things done and that's on point! I am always seeking different locations for better back grounds and diversity when I am shooting. It gets My juices flowing when I am being video taped knowing that I will be watched and that person is living through the sub that I am using. Or just watching Me alone with no sub and I am captivating My audience and taking them to sub space. And then I get so in tuned with what I am doing in the scene that nothing else exist. I understand what they are going through and feeling when they watch because I am a voyeur and freak Myself!

As for other life in general I am going back to Key West tonight... I was there last weekend with My sub as I mentioned in My previous blog here. He is My sissy maid and I get pampered on his yacht. It's a nice getaway, some may say a vacation from a vacation because I already live in Florida. That alone is a
vacation! The Keys are beautiful and being on a yacht makes it all the better. I will be returning back to Fort Lauderdale this Saturday morning.

I may be shooting more videos and or editing when I return, not sure yet. The  Fetish Factory is giving their monthly party this Saturday evening at the Sea Monster here in Fort Lauderdale. If I am not too tired or busy I might be going. I met this very pretty new Black Domme for brunch a few days ago for a possible mentoring and fun, and we talked about going together to the party, that gives Me more incentive to go, plus I always have fun at their parties, check out their parties and web site at: The Fetish Factory

I am working on a new look for My official web site at : DominaErotica.com so stay tuned!

Looks like more travel is coming My way to places like New York, California (again this year!), Canada for the Montreal Fetish Weekend, Tampa Florida for FetishCon etc.... this is My plan but as some of us understand and know, GOD has the master plan!

Key West Bound!

Getting ready to travel to Key West. I have a very useful servitude sub there with a beautiful yacht that enjoys spoiling Me like I deserve. A full weekend of sissy maid service, foot massages, training, shopping, relaxing, bondage, domination, slut training, heavy verbal and spankings...... .I love being ME!

My Fetish Factory 15 year Anniversary Party Experience

Ok, if you ever want to experience a kinky kick ass fetish marathon then you REALLY need to check out the Fetish Factory Anniversary Party next year. I had soooo much fun starting from Friday night's meet and greet party. To Saturday nights Fetish Ball. Sunday afternoon's fetish Pool party. Sunday evenings Extreme Fetish Party. To the after hours Pool Party!!! Talking about kinksters from all over the globe, wearing some amazing and extremely creative outfits, wonderful performances, great socializing, connecting with new and old friends, parties, scandal and deviance. I am a voyeur to My heart and I was very entertained with so many scenes going on throughout the whole weekend. I, of course had My share of useful victims to play with too. I thoroughly enjoyed wearing My latex especially a few items that were new and I have not worn yet. Red and Black, Yellow Latex, Military Style Latex Catsuit, Black Latex Bathing suit etc....

Overall, obviously I had a good time and I am looking forward to next year. Every year seems to get better and better. It reminds Me of My days back when I lived in New York way over a decade ago, when the fetish partying was plentiful and fabulous! Never a dull moment and always something to do, places to go, people to see and mischief to look forward to. I will have some pics of the party posted very soon here, so come back and check them out!

As always, Domina Erotica

Fetish Factory 15 year Anniversary Party this weekend!!

This weekend is the Fetish Factory 15 year Anniversary Party ( Fetish Factory site ) and I can't wait. 3 days of fetish, kink, fun, play and latex! I always look forward to their parties because they are kick ass.... Lots of kinksters from all over, meet and greet on Friday, Fabulous fetish Ball and show Saturday night, Extreme Fetish Factory Party Sunday night for more kink and play. I will have pics taken so look forward to seeing some of them here soon!

Mistressleesa Blog/DOMCONLA 2010

Below is a link to Mistress Leesa FemDom Links and a great blog site that documents a kinky scene experience story that I told while at DOMCON in Los Angeles at one of the lectures held there. Mistress Leesa blog is highly recommended if you like to keep up with the fetish community and events. Click onto the link below.

http://www.mistressleesa.com/wordpress/

My DOMCON LA experience and pics!

I just returned from the DOMCON Convention in Los Angeles and it was fabulous! I had such a great time there and look forward to going to the next one this year in Atlanta. These conventions are held every year.

The work shops I attended turned out to be informative and entertaining, the friday night meet and greet play party was held at Passive Arts Studio which was about 10 minutes from the host hotel Hilton Hotel LAX. Nice people and scenes going on etc... I of course accepted sessions while I was there and trained subs. Saw people I have not seen in awhile like My good friend of 15 years David Jackson, Publisher of DDI (Dominant Directory International) Magazine and Bootlovers Magazine (Boot Lovers Magazine site). We have been trying to connect for awhile now for Me to do a photo shoot for his magazines. Never in the right same place and time, one day though!  He's mostly based in London, so when I travel there....maybe....I also met some cool new people. Saturday nights fetish ball was packed and I had a good time. Some great outfits, plenty of interesting scenes to go around, paparazzi, fetish performances, socializing, good music and lots of fun!

Here are some of the pics from the Convention...... enjoy!

Maitresse Renee, Me, Goddess Infinity

Friday night Meet & Greet

Me in My military style latex catsuit 

Intensity....

Buns of steel...

Me & Goddess Infinity after the Mistress Tea Party

in the Hilton Hotel LAX

This was Mistress Jillian and Her furry sub at the VIP after party...

The furry subs face was so real looking it was amazing, the eyes blinked

and the nose moved. The teeth were very realistic.. one of the best furry suits I've seen.

Getting ready for Los Angeles DOMCON!

I have been very busy these days, between personal this that and the other, riding that inevitable wave of life and all the joy it can bring, expanding My web site and fetish videos Empire, shooting and editing My videos again. In which I was on a hiatus from shooting new material etc.... for a little while, but I am filming again now more and new sexy, kinky fetish videos. As for Los Angeles I have been preparing for that big event coming up this Wednesday May 12th to 16th and I can't wait!! The DOMCON Convention ( Dom Con Convention site ) held at the Los Angeles Hilton LAX is where the kink and deviance will take place in all its glory! I am going to terrorize, socialize, attend fetish parties, play at Passive Arts Studios, shoot some more erotic domination videos, check out the lectures, shows, workshops and accept sessions while I am there. I will be staying at the host hotel LA Hilton LAX and taking sessions there so if you are interested contact Me a.s.a.p. at My email address at: mserotica@aol.com  My time is limited. Lots to take care of before I go ... what am I going to wear? Red latex, military latex, rubber chaps.... I'll just bring all of them and some other sexy latex outfits with My high heel boots and shoes. Always looking forward to sliding in My latex.... and getting that delicious feeling! Anyway, let's move on I am enjoying talking about latex too much.

I have this sweet sexy female sub waiting for Me when I arrive in LA. A scrumptious tasty morsel for erotic play and servitude. She is from LA and I am going to have fun having My way with her making her My slave bitch! I also have a 2 select male subs for My beck and call what I need and whenever I need it, which makes My life easier and that's always better. I have confirmed sessions scheduled and looking forward to new flesh to torment and dominate. I plan on getting away from the hotel and convention to hang out a Venice Beach and Hollywood Boulevard and wherever else adventure will take Me. Might as well make the best of it and enjoy every moment, as in life!

If I have time I will blog again before I leave for LA, if not I will blog when I return after May 16th.....

Blonde Chocolate....

Look at those beautiful sexy long fingernails..... made for flesh scratching!

Want to see My OLDER BLOG POST?

There seems to be some of you that are not sure how this whole blog thing works when it comes to being able to find older blog post that I wrote. Scroll down to the bottom of this page and you will see the words OLDER POST in pink letters. Click onto the words OLDER POST and that will take you to My previous post from days before. OLDER POST is at the bottom of every blog page.